Life isn't always easy. Everyone knows this .It is how we deal with that information that can make our lives different . Trying to be ready for what you want in life makes more sense than anything else.
When the mountain seems too tall take the climb one step at a time.
I know someone who is out of shape , a general unhealthy. They claim they want someone in their life but they really don't take the steps to be ready for being in a relationship. The steps will be baby steps in the beginning but they have to take the steps to get to the next level. Other people have some expectations of who they want to share their lives with. Walking and holding hands , dancing , hiking or what other activities that make them happy and bring joy to their life.Yes, get ready for what you want !
We humans often get paralyzed with fear and anxiety . Some times it is due to a trauma or painful life experience . We have to try to strive to do our best for that day , everyday. Oh I know it isn't always so easy. Do the best you can that day. I had a time so dark that days , weeks , months even years were just a blur of I could barely breathe. I had friends that would keep in touch with me and let a sliver of light in my darkened world and God bless them for not just running the other way. Some gave up and I understand why but I wish they could have stuck around.
I see the time that passed me by and it makes me sad and mad. I wish I had gotten help sooner. That fear thing is strong and powerful. I wish the fear made more sense to me. Excepting that it was what it was and that I did the best I could at the time is not always easy but it is unchangeable. Now that I don't live in the dark I take that as real progress. I have days filled with anxiety that make me feel physically sick ! I have sad days that feel so empty. But I never want to slide back into a world of darkness and no hope.
I try to be supportive to others in the bad times. Maybe it's just a "thinking about you" post on Facebook or a short text . I know we all have our battles but I want them to know I care.
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